If you are totally satisfied with the life that you're living or with the results that you are achieving in your Work...
why change things?
If, however, you feel like something is missing, that you could have and be more, and you would like to be feel more fulfilled and authentically free...
why shouldn't you try to change things?
The good news is that
YOU CAN!
CHANGE THE WORLD... CHANGE THE APPROACH
The world is in a deep phase of transformation... but you already know that.
The hardships we are facing are the effect, not the cause, of a change that has been underway for several years now and which has made the world much smaller and more interconnected.
The reality that's manifesting today will have an ever heavier impact on our lives, at a personal level, on our relationships, on our businesses, and so on...
This process is irreversible and nothing will ever be as before... you better get over it.
As with any other epochal change, it is first of all necessary to accept its inevitability and then figure out how this new game works... and play it!
SUPPORT THE PROCESS OR RESIST IT?
Indeed, the real question is not this, but: how badly do you want to hurt yourself?
Supporting the process does not mean raising a white flag, far from it. It means...
1) figuring out which dynamics are actually nurturing it, and
2) taking control.
With the old ways of thinking, this is impossible!
It is necessary to form new paradigms and, above all, to activate the resources that we all have, but that perhaps no one has taught us to exploit to their full potential.
WHAT ARE THE 3 KEY RESOURCES?
As the video also explains specifically, there are 3 basic resources we all need to work on,
and to strengthen over time in order to obtain increasingly important results.
These resources are:
These three resources were not placed there haphazardly, but because they interact with each other in a
synergistic and systemic way, such as to trigger the most performing dynamics and, therefore,
make our efforts more fruitful and lasting.
Here's how...
CONTROL
Control is an indispensable resource in our material/physical/technical/operational reality.
Without Control it's not possible to manage anything, whether it's our life or a multinational corporation.
However, what we usually apply is a direct (or active) type of Control, which makes it oppressive and often even manipulative for those who endure it.
In my coaching I teach how to use an indirect (or passive) type of Control, which is far more relaxed and sustainable, making it more effective and altogether free from "adverse effects".
How a stronger, but at the same time more prudent and less invasive type of Control, can make you more effective.
- You don't have to run all over the place plugging holes and making sure that everything is OK;
- You can focus on the issues that really matter;
- You strengthen your leadership;
- You find more time to dedicate to yourself and to the people who are most important to you;
- You are more relaxed, creative, and spontaneous;
- You don't need to prove anything to anyone: the facts speak for you;
- Transmit concreteness, solidity, and competence, increasing the trust of others in you.
INFLUENCE
Influence is the resource that works on the relational aspect of your life or your work, as it operates at the emotional level.
A weak Influence can frustrate your every effort to exercise effective Control, and even if you have all it takes to achieve the success that you deserve, you'd keep finding yourself bouncing off a rubber wall.
It's not just about your hold over others, but most and foremost on yourself.
In my coaching, I explain the best strategies to reinforce your Influence, not just to boost your effectiveness, but also to generate more energizing emotional states.
How a more incisive and widespread Influence can increase your chances of success and raise the quality of your life/work.
- You'll no longer strive to seek consensus; it will seek you;
- It's much easier for you to start new relationships and maintain them over time;
- Discover new and extraordinary emotional resources in yourself;
- You develop a more constructive and optimistic view of your life and work;
- You feel good about yourself;
- You can make things happen in a much easier way, and more passionately.
DIRECTION
Direction is a resource that operates at the level of our superior mind, typical of human beings.
At the level of Direction, we draw on our paradigms and our value system to decide what to do with our lives and where we want to be.
When we lack a clear and detailed Direction, we find ourselves at the mercy of others and events, and we suffer the Control and the Influence of others, which makes it impossible for us to change anything.
In my coaching, I guide people through the maze of their values and desires, thus helping them achieve a state of absolute clarity on what they want to represent in their lives and their work.
How a sharper and more defined Direction can take your life and work to another level of impact.
- Your doubts, your fears, and your hesitations turn into certainty, courage, and trust;
- You feel inspired by what you feel, and therefore willing to put yourself on the line to live it fully;
- You attract others to your vision, who will want to be a part of it;
- Forming a stronger belief in your uniqueness and in the difference you can make for many;
- Your self-esteem grows and so does faith in yourself and in your potential;
- Your actions will be firm and resolute.
As you may have guessed, not only were these three fundamental resources not chosen randomly, but
the "relationship" between them follows the sequence illustrated above... in reverse: everything starts
from Direction, which will determine the Influence, which in turn will define Control.
There is no room for improvisation!
Simply answer "yes" or "no" to these 5 simple questions...
ABOUT YOUR LIFE
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Do you feel like you have less control over your life or work than you did just a few years ago?
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You know you have the skills to make and give more than you are doing, but you don't know how to make
the most of them?
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Your days go by without understanding how you are making a difference for yourself or others, especially
for those who are closest to you?
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You feel like you're living by the day, doing the usual things, with no real purpose or anything that makes a
a more real and profound sense of your existence?
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Would you like to have more lively, meaningful, and fulfilling relationships with your friends and colleagues/work
partners, etc., and
especially with the people you love the most?
ABOUT YOUR JOB
⚡ Your work weighs you down, it doesn't reward you from an economic point of view or otherwise, and you
can't
understand why?
⚡ You see that your relationships with colleagues, bosses/subordinates, customers/suppliers, etc. are weak and
inadequate and you don't know
how to improve them?
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You are carrying out your work with dignity, but deep down you know and feel you can do much more, and you
can't
figure out how to can climb to the next level?
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You're having an increasingly difficult time making the most crucial decisions for your business because you
don't have a clear picture of where you are, and where you're going?
⚡ You would like to experience more passion, more conviction, more trust, more momentum towards your work,
but you feel like boulders on your shoulders pinning you to the ground?
Now, take the questions you answered "Yes" (or "That's right") to and ask yourself these last two questions:
- How different would your life be now... and how much more fruitful and profitable would your business be if
you had been more effective in the areas of deficiency that you just highlighted?
- How much financial loss, time, effort, pain, disappointment, etc. would you have spared yourself?
No one, who isn't totally blinded by pride or fear of seriously confronting himself, would have answered
"No, this doesn't concern me" to all of the 10 questions asked.
So the real question isn't whether you need to go 1-on-1 with me: of course, you don't!
The real question is:
⭐ if you really want it;
⭐ if you really want to make the most of your potential;
⭐ if you really want your thoughts to be energized, your emotions powerful, and your actions impactful;
⭐ if you really want to stop getting lost in a thousand rivulets, and be resolutely focused on your goals;
⭐ if you really want to feel in control and with unshakable confidence in yourself and the projects you create;
⭐ if you really want to have deep and true relationships with the people you love the most;
⭐ if you really want... whatever!
If you're not interested in investing in yourself
(not just economically)... in what, then?
Ultimately, it all boils down to what you want... like for all those people who, at one point, decided to play the game of life and get committed to work seriously on themselves.
Here are some testimonials from people who were coached by me
During these 3 months of journey I was able to develop greater self-confidence.
Seeing things in a different light.
Have more control over my actions. Don't keep things inside me. And what used to be a burden, Alessandro made me see, understand and live in a different way. He was able to give me an explanation and gain greater awareness.
A long journey but made with extreme precision. He knows how to devote precious time and is available for any clarification.
I feel very satisfied to have met Alessandro and for what he has been able to give me.
Marina Miccoli - Administrative employee
The coaching journey with Alessandro was very important to me and very useful for my growth. It helped me to see things from other points of view (...). It made me glimpse glimmers of a different path, in which to find the happiness I've always been looking for.
I did a quality job with Alessandro, he helped me and made me passionate about topics I would never have approached before. He has given me great support with his writings and webinars, from which I have learned a lot. And a relationship of trust and harmony was created, which allowed me to really work on my emotions and feelings, which is the real heart of this journey!
Paolo Zanetti - Manager
(...) Alessandro immediately tried to make people understand the core of everything, that is that we are actually systems, our every choice or action is based on systems! I really enjoyed this experience because I saw that it can help me a lot, and it has already begun to bear fruit.
(...) I'm managing to resolve complicated situations I had with very impulsive people, simply by changing my approach and having their way of reasoning clearer.
In short, I consider it a very beautiful and useful experience for professional and personal growth, which can give great benefits!
Igor Toniolo - Production Manager
The work I did together with Alessandro was a work of greater awareness.
(...) I got in touch with a part of me that I knew externally but didn't know internally.
In a nutshell I took more control of myself than I didn't know how to control before and this made me freer.
I recommend Alessandro to anyone who wants to achieve their outer goals through a profound inner change.
Daniele P. - Business Consultant
This path was very useful for clarifying some emotional blocks and for sorting out the tangle of thoughts and moods that clouded some areas of my life: work, affections, priorities, etc.
(...) Thank you, you are a serious and reliable professional who puts "giving" first and I must say that you have been able to give me a lot, in terms of humanity and professionalism.
I really thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Paolo Bratina - Merchant
(...) I needed a person of utmost trust to be able to share a very important topic with her: the future of my company.
(...) At each session I was able to confront myself as if in front of a mirror and I was given the necessary tools to plan long-term objectives.
For me it was a very targeted and practical experience that helped me a lot and that I would recommend even if it was only as a method for a path of personal growth
Igino Righele - Owner of RTM srl.
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